- What boroughs and neighborhoods should we explore?
- At which local joints should we eat and imbibe?
- Which experiences must we have?
- Where should we stay (general locations, hotels, bnb’s, couches are all helpful leads!)?
- Any tourist traps to avoid?
The reason why trust is such a fragile system is that most of consider it as an ingredient rather than an outcome. Trust is a consequence but never a cause. In fact, the ultimate reason why people trust one another is because they feel SAVE with each other.
They know that every play needs people knowing how to play together. One just does not save the melody. And at the end of the day all we want is a pretty life melody including all the harsh and rough sounds in between but knowing we’ll get to the sweet refrain again… The best songs are those which raise our heartbeats in different directions of excitement, hope and dismissal and anger…. but it is the tribe who is able to make this play a great play. Some souls understand that we are all little creatures trying to figure out to play the melody of human experience and make it sound right and some just want their solo…
Solos are simple cause you never need to practice with others… you become your own master, you never have to tune in, wait for your part of the performance, be patient with the slower learners, catch up with those who have had more (life) practice before and the other way around, engage with others when they made a mistake…
It’s ok, I am with the band! We make mistakes!
Thank you! Your life melody made me aware how boring my solo was…